Having lived through and survived an explosive 15-year marriage and several learning relationships, I became a sought-after dating coach, speaker, podcast host, and published author. I have produced some of the Denver area’s best singles events where connections have been made and relationships formed.
Having hosted my own radio show and as a writing contributor to an online Denver magazine, I offered dating, image and etiquette advice for singles.
I produced fashion shows to demonstrate how single men and women can make themselves more attractive simply by changing their wardrobe and style and not breaking the bank.
With all that to said, I believe love can happen for anyone at any age and stage in their life.
So, if you are ready to break old patterns, lose the baggage, enhance yourself, escalate your dating game, essentially HotUp, and are ready to meet the last love of your life, you are in the right place. I want to help you get ready to meet your soulmate!
About
My story is one of resilience and transformation. With a rich tapestry of life experiences, I became an expert in dating and relationships, navigating the complex world of love and relationships with grace and insight.
It all began with a challenging 15-year marriage marked by abuse, jealousy, and control. Despite the mental and physical hardships, I found the strength to leave, reclaiming my independence and rebuilding my life. This pivotal decision marked the start of my transformation from a survivor to a thriver.
With two marriages under my belt, seven years of being single, and a couple of “learning relationships”, I honed my understanding of relationships and dating dynamics. Having become an incidental expert in dating and relationships, my experiences have equipped me with a unique perspective, allowing me to empathize with others while offering practical advice and support. I have been happily married for the last six years, proving that love and trust can happen again, when you are ready and your heart is open to it.
Today, I hope to be a beacon of hope for those navigating their own relationship challenges. My insights and guidance are invaluable to anyone seeking to find love, recover from heartbreak, or simply understand the intricacies of human connections. Through my work, my goal is to continue to inspire and empower others, demonstrating that it is possible to not only survive but also thrive in the face of adversity.
What We Do
Group Coaching
I coach men and women who are tired of dating frustration, mixed signals, and becoming accidental serial daters. Together, we build confidence, social savvy, dating etiquette, and
the kind of flirtation that feels easy and natural—not cringey or uncomfortable. You’ll show up as you—authentic, engaging, humorous, and attractive without trying so hard.
Webinars
A weekly, engaging online event where I deliver my presentation online to attendees from all over the world, to guide you through each step of your transformation.
Self-Paced Online Courses
Pre-recorded courses with several modules that allow for an in-depth look at your dating situations. These may be completed at your pace.
Hot Up! Mastermind
Groups of 10 - 25 single men, women, or co-ed groups with 6 - 12 week duration, where peer-to-peer mentoring is employed to help you solve your dating dilemmas with input and advice from Connie and the other group members.
Retreats
Join us for weekend or week-long retreats filled with activities that empower inner reflection in an atmosphere curated for mutual enjoyment and authentic connections. Surround yourself with like-minded men, women or co-ed groups of singles in fabulous locations, that will inspire and challenge you as you participate in engaging activities/exercises, captivating workshops, FABulous social events, and depart the retreat a week later as your new hot self.
Lady Hitch Singles Cocktail Mixers-
These mixers are hosted in venues such as art galleries, golf clubs, country clubs, cruise ships, club houses, poolside and other sophisticated, upscale venues and exotic destinations.
Podcast Premiering February 12, 2026!
Introducing The Connie Hewitson Show
Real dating stories. Hard-earned wisdom. And the love you didn’t see coming.
Launching February 12, The Connie Hewitson Show is a candid, faith-forward, no-nonsense podcast about modern dating, relationships, and the surprising ways love actually shows up.
In the debut episode, Connie shares the true story of how she met her husband—after seven years of heartbreak, a dating marathon, and one bold prayer that changed everything. Spoiler alert: he didn’t arrive in the packaging she expected… but he was exactly the husband she needed and wanted.
Each episode blends Connie’s personal journey with real dating stories from listeners and clients—stories that are funny, frustrating, hopeful, and honest. Together, they explore why dating feels so exhausting, how we repeat the same patterns, and what happens when we stop chasing fantasy and start choosing alignment.
If you’re single, dating, divorced, hopeful, tired, faithful, or just curious about why love works the way it does—this podcast is for you.
Come for the stories.
Stay for the truth.
And leave with a whole new way of looking at love.
🎧New episodes weekly.
Featured Single
Would you like to be featured on my podcast, The Connie Hewitson Show? Let us know! We would love to help you get out there. My Featured Single is like online dating ON STERIODS!